From experts: importance of fantasy in relation
Below, Tristan Taormino, Dr. Ian Kerner, Dr. Zhana emphasize why fantasy helps us in our relationships and how we can make ourselves fascinated with them.
Why is fantasy so important in the bedroom?
We tend to have a narrow viewpoint of fantasy in that we are incorporated into sexual life. Specifically, strictly speaking a lot of fantasies like Solo · Day Dream, role-playing, special things we partner when participating in role playing.
In fact, fantasy is part of almost all sexual encounters, as it sends weak sex before sex actually happens. We adopt various power dynamics in bed with our partners who do not exist in regular everyday relationships.
Dr. Ian Kerner, a famous sex educator, adds as follows. "Fantasy is the first track to amplify excitement and enhance orgasm.The brain is the greatest genitals and men and women have the power to think virtually the way to orgasm.Unfortunately, the couple always has sex It is not always necessary to develop imagination together, so finding ways to stimulate fantasies together is essential.
Dr. Zhana, sexual education and researcher, "Fantasy enables our brain to produce different scenarios, to safely experiment with different sexual experiences and create ideal encounters, , It helps us decide what we really want to try in the bedroom, what we want to keep only illusions.Many people, especially women, have the illusion during sex being mentally and thus physically We find that it helps to raise the stimulus needed to reach orgasm.The sexy idea leads to a physically excited state and can enhance the experience with partners.Therefore fantasy is It is important not only for exploring sexuality but also for people to actually achieve sexual satisfaction.
[Similarly] Fantasy cultivates the mind and broadens the understanding of the world. Imagination and playing abilities are essential to great sex! Many people regard sex as the dominant physical activity, but the key to good sex is not only physical movement, but also understanding of emotional and intellectual elements that make a particular partner stand out. Therefore, many people are attracted to BDSM and role playing. This is not just the physical sensation of the scene but the calculation and controlled change of the emotional dynamics that occurs between the dominant partner and the subordinate partner. All such sexual encounters are important.
Can you regain the enjoyment of temptation?
Many people encounter similar situations as their relationships escape the honeymoon phase. Gender is a part of everyday things (though still fun). And yet, it will be easier to reexamine mere daily life into more exciting things in terms of innovative sexual experiences. But through fantasy you can really create an illusion that you can experience all the things you might be missing and reproduce its meaning.
"When sex becomes a wrong conclusion, part of the fascinating excitement is lost, so for the sex with a devoted partner, temptation is a bedroom like a new position, role-playing, adding a new toy You can take the form of trying out new ones.
Taste the opportunity to count dress up here too! When someone tries something new, partners do not know how to respond, take chances on the result, and make fascinating propositions. Hopefully the temptation leads to action and satisfaction. Regardless of the sex of the participants, the excitement here is unknown and captures the opportunity, "Dr. Zhana says.
Dr. Ian said, "Women are often skilled in the art of temptation, but it is fun to think about how to tempt a woman, how to cheer her, how to counteract intuition, sex is fun, sex is fun There are interesting things, the highest sex often runs the risk of leading to a smile or laughter, since laughter actually plays a role to relax and stimulate, enter the spirit of temptation (serious and pleasant side) Do not be afraid to laugh. '
Educators and activists of sex, Tristan Taormino adds that "Everyone should try to return pleasure to the bedroom regardless of gender." It is a playful space full of fantasy and exploration. If you hurt security guards and try new things, our connection will increase.
Is not it just for women?
Much of "sexual" performance (attractive dressing and behavioral sensation) tends to be done by women as part of both our culture and biology (as Dr. Zhana points out, ovulation They tend to wear more violent clothes and red and pink colors ... they are unconsciously communicating to men that they are fertile. ").
Tristan Taormino emphasizes women wearing lingerie, sexy chatter and role play costumes to seduce partners and restore sparks, but it is said to be equally important for men as well. Women love to be tempted by their partners. Knowing that men made special efforts for sex is a true turn-on.
Dr. Ian Kerner adds as follows. "It's a myth that only men are visual, women are also visual, women understand how men are undressed with clothes for sex, vision is important Elegantly men love lingerie.As there are no people who wear teddy and dress for sex like Dominatrix, think about what you are wearing or look out to fantasy Incorporating is a powerful aphrodisiac.
"Men may have a monthly cycle leading the selection of clothing items but they know that dressing enhances confidence and confidence is a big part of sex appeal.It is better dressed than a friend For men who are human beings, to make their feelings better and to impress long-term partners, they are sure to draw their attitudes It is important to raise or change official wear and tuxedo is the most important example here.Women can not feel tempted by their style as a woman looks at her companion.
Conclusion
Creating fantasies can provide false inspiration and erotic energy that may be lost as your relationships become more stable and long term. From dressing up to temptation, to exploring more diverse roles employed only in the bedroom. Building that illusion with your partner is just a matter!
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